Hi Sam,
I guess my answer depends on the sum of money here. You can go to your bank and ask to speak to someone about money markets, IRA's, or Certificate of Deposits (CD's). You can also used the internet to compare different rates that banks offer, and don't forget to look into credit unions, they tend to have slightly higher rates than banks. If the money you are talking about is substancial, then i would look for a financial advisor. Research one on line and look for reviews on the firm. Check the BBB (Better Business Bureau) website to see if they have any good or bad ratings. You should meet with a few and make sure you are completely comfortable with that advisor as well as the firm before you invest anything. Also, one other thing, on Sunday mornings WBZ 1030am radio has some financial advice show on the radio that gives good tips.

Hi JB,
How old is your husband? You know the old "mid-life crisis" thing? Ask him straight out what his problem is? Tell him that you are upset and embarrassed by his behavior. Ask him if it is the company you are keeping, the places you go, or is it really just him? Maybe he doesn't like the people you are going out with, the food at a particular place? If it is one of those things, maybe those can be adjusted. If it is more serious than that, then maybe he needs some alone time, and if that doesn't cover it, ask him if he needs to see a doctor, an MD or otherwise. If all else fails, go by yourself, enjoy yourself, have a grand old time, who knows, maybe he will get jealous and eventually join you.

Good evening,
Boy this is a tricky one. You have to have it out with your mother. Sit her down and tell her how you are feeling, You are almost an adult, a grown man who seems to have a good head on your shoulders. I think that your mothers issues are not really with you. She was probably really hurt and now has alot of fears about you growing up. I'm afraid that your mothers insecurities are taking her over and becoming your vice. It sounds like she needs some help from a professional or some other family member, an aunt, uncle or grandparent. You can even offer to go with her if you want or she needs to see someone. And I do agree with you that a girl might be turned away with that kind of overbearing mom. Tell her that you really want to start a relationship and ask her to back off. Let her know that she will always hold that special place in your heart and you value her advice and friendship, but ask her to give you some breathing room so you can take flight and fall or take flight and soar.

BOY HOLLIE, YOUR ANSWER WAS SO GOOD. I ESPECIALLY LOVE THE LAST SENTANCE. WAY TO GO..

Hi Ghris,
I wouldn't excuse myself from the conversation at all. If the other woman is really your friend then you should say something. If there is one thing I hate, it's exactly this. I hate when people backstab other people. It is so rude and classless. Tell your "other" group of friends that you really like this person and you think that what they are doing behind her back is disgusting. Let them know that you don't stoop to their level. And who cares if they get mad or don't like what you have to say, at least they won't talk about her anymore in your presence. And I know that you are thinking that this would make for uncomfortable times being around them, but really do you want the kind of people in your lives that talk about other people when they are not around? You know they probably do it about you too, its a given. Maybe its time for a new circle of friends.